For many couples, sex can be one dimensional. Even though you and your partner still enjoy sex, often it just doesn’t feel as exciting as your first time (or times) together. Sure, it might be better… but where are those exciting butterflies?
Breaking out of your sexual shell is the only way those butterflies will return. Trying new toys, trying new positions and trying new things is important in the bedroom.
- Communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your desires and interests. Ask your partner what they like and what they’re willing to try.
- Experiment with different positions and techniques. Trying new things can add excitement and bring a fresh perspective to your sexual routine.
- Introduce sex toys or other props. Sex toys can enhance pleasure and add variety to your sexual experiences. You can also experiment with bondage gear or other props for a different kind of excitement.
- Set the mood. Create a romantic atmosphere in the bedroom with dim lighting, candles, and soft music.
- Schedule regular date nights. Even if it is just once a month and take turns planning it. Take the time to plan a special night for just the two of you. This could include a romantic dinner or a night out to see a movie or show.
- Get out of the bedroom. Mixing things up by having sex in different locations can be a great way to add excitement.
- Role play. Pretending to be someone else can be a great way to tap into new fantasies and desires.
- Practice intimacy. Kissing, cuddling, and other forms of intimacy can help to build emotional connection and increase sexual desire.
- Be adventurous. Take a trip or try something new together, and bring that sense of adventure into the bedroom.
- Be open to feedback and willing to try new things. Remember that it takes two to tango, and be willing to listen to your wife's feedback and try new things that she may suggest.
It's important to keep in mind that what works for one couple may not work for another. It's important to communicate and be open to trying new things. Also, remember that it is not just about the physical aspect of sex, but also the emotional and mental connection that can bring you closer.
Communicating about sex is crucial to having a better sex life. Practice talking about sex but inside and outside of the bedroom. If something is making you unfulfilled, bring it up with your partner during a time where both of you are ready to communicate it. For many couples, bringing in toys and even having a full toy collection, is the key to everlasting intimacy. It ensures there is always something new to try and allows for more creativity in the bedroom.
